The legendary talk show host, 59, has been dating businessman Stedman Graham since 1986 but the two have opted to shun tradition when it comes to maintaining their relationship.
has served over 3,000 victims of abuse, along with their non-offending care givers, since July 2003.
I went downstairs every time I came home from work," he says. "Because it's not about the sex, what everyone's been made to believe.
Oprah Winfrey has opened up to explain why she has never married – she’s not traditional.
To write "The Truth About Cheating," Gary surveyed hundreds of faithful and cheating husbands to uncover the real reason some men stray. How often does a man cheat on his wife with a woman who's more attractive? Gary found that 88 percent of the men surveyed said the other women were no better looking or in no better shape than their own wives.
Gary says his work as a marriage counselor inspired him to write this book. Oprah.com: The "other woman" speaks out For the first five years of his marriage, AJ says things were rocky with his wife, Janet.